The reason I asked you the question about your history is because sometimes it really comes from a lack of closeness in one's history that is the origin of the insecurity and the confusing gut feelings.

Often a person gets involved with someone because there is something that is familiar. Familiar may very well be something unhealthy or not right for the person.

It's surprising how often that happens. So, I was just wondering if this is coming from something you may not realize about yourself yet.