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Old Mar 16, 2020, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted by rdgrad15 View Post
Oh I never heard of ableism. So basically, from what I'm understanding, it's those who don't have a disability sending a message to those that do that they are less than or not able to do as much as they really can? If so, then that makes sense because I see that happening all the time. Not just with me, but with other people too. I've seen people in wheelchairs get babied by people who believe the person in a wheelchair can't do anything, when in fact, they can in a lot of cases. In fact, I knew someone in college that was in a chair and she loved doing stuff herself.


She hated it when people would do stuff for her in a way that made her feel less than. She was very independent. The only time she accepted help is when she either asked or in some rare cases, was really struggling, in most cases, reaching something that was too high up, and someone else would get it for her. Also going up steep hills required help too, otherwise, she was very independent.
Ableism is discrimination like racism but against the disabled. It's making statements or actions that favor the non disabled over the disabled. Ableism can come from disabled people as well as non disabled, you don't have to be non disabled to show ableism. I am also disabled and deal with ableism all the time. We discuss it at length in my disabled support groups. I'll see if I can find some straight forward examples for you.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.

Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien

Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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