I’d say if they can’t figure out if a meeting is mandatory or not, they are the stupid ones lol not you. I am not being serious, somewhat tongue in cheek but com’n. They are the ones unable to figure things out.

So next time you are asked dumb question reply with “info is provided in emails and is very clear, is there any reason you are unable to read or comprehend the information?” Or if they hear your answer and still ask someone else reply with “ I see you don’t understand when you hear something the first time, is there something you need help with so you improve your comprehension?” Put it on them.

On a serious note yes people tend to dismiss those who look or sound or act different. Infuriating. I have low tolerance for this.