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Old Mar 16, 2020, 04:27 PM
rdgrad15 rdgrad15 is offline
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
Oh no need to appoligize, I totally understand what you are saying. I also like how you added that seeing something renovated and changed can act as a positive because it is another way to confirm something has changed and it can make it easier to move on.
Thank you and yeah I think it makes it easier. It still may be a bit sad to see how things changed, but in a sense, it's still better than to lose people you used to really like and hang around, only to go back and see that things are exactly as they used to be. I think that serves a much harder nostalgic blow in my opinion. In that case, it can be easy to do the whole, "I remember this happened here. I remember when we did this there." And so on. At least seeing something changed, as I mentioned, softens the nostalgic feelings and brings feelings of acceptance easier and quicker.
Thanks for this!
Open Eyes