I'm not been dx as ADD, but always have had my suspicions...every ADD test I do I score high :-( ...

I take remeron and find that though its not aways needed for depression, the sedative effect helps me....my mind is still racing, but its like I dont care...

My husband is home from work this week and decided to decorate our bedroom, and I walked in from work and the messssss. I flipped, I felt so ungrateful but I had a chance to talk to him after my explosion and tell hime that I can't put it into words how clutter/disorganisaion makes me feel panicky...its like I will never be able to get on top of things again...my fear I have is one day I will be old and alone and unable to sort my home out and will just sit powerless as the clutter builds and builds...

Theres times when I attempt to do housework and my husband says, take a deep breath and do one thing at a time do not tackle it all in one go...and that works at the time...you'd think I'd remember that, but each time the housework builds up its back to sq1 again...

Why does "Mess" do this?