well i finally did it. i have been wanting this divorce for a while now. my husband is having a terrible time accepting this request. he is now very depressed and has no support other than me. its so difficult because i have to give him support for something that i want so badly. i feel terrible for hurting him but i cannot be unhappy anymore. i think it is best that i told him because being in a relationship with someone u are not in love with is not right (at least not to me). he wants to be around me to make up for the things that he did, but its too late, i just want to move on. i wish he had support from his family so that i wouldnt have to be the one to console him. i feel like i am bound to do this. i dont know what else to do. sorry for the rambling.