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Old Mar 18, 2020, 11:14 AM
rdgrad15 rdgrad15 is offline
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Originally Posted by giddykitty View Post
*Deep breath and sigh!

I totally get what you're saying, but I'm not sure the person who bugs me most lately goes as far as to literally say "I told you so". That's actually more my thing when I'm finally right about something in regards to them. They brag on about their accomplishments and are very critical of others. "If you'd just do it my way..." they say. It's really innerving! So yeah, I often not admit I was wrong because they probably already know. Thing is, and it hits my heart here because I love this person, even when they might react a certain way, they need to know that I know I was wrong and am sorry when I was. So like say it was something really serious...or just times when they call me out on something, well then I feel I have to admit it...but yes, I suppose there have been many instances when I've kept it to myself for exactly that reason- their ego is big enough already. It's hard. It really is! Especially when it's someone you love and they just don't seem to see what they're doing to you. :/
Exactly. I agree. It is hard because know what will happen if you admit to someone who is arrogant that they were right. No need to inflate their egos any more than it already is.
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