I don't know her except for what my husband has shared with me about her. I've never met her before.

I do understand why he's played nice, and I don't fault him for that. He had his life's belongings at his old house/her house now, these belongings are important and special to him, and he has had to slowly move everything out.

When they first separated and began divorce proceedings, he did not have the financial means to afford a large and expensive storage unit each month. He had a HUGE amount of belongings there, collected from his entire life. So when we first met and got an apartment together, it was the first chance he had to begin moving things out. As it is, he has filled our entire storage room with all his belongings he has retrieved so far, and our storage room is HUGE. That's how much he had there.

It is what it is. I haven't been happy over the situation, but I've had to accept it for what it is. He's tried hard to make me happy but also keep the peace with her, which I can understand. It's not the easiest situation, all around. I really don't blame him or have any anger towards him at all over it. It just is what it is.

He does get how much it upsets me because I get uppity every time she contacts him.

He will most likely block her after we get the crystals. If he doesn't do it on his own, I may ask him to.

I think what got to me the most was asking him to fix the TV more than once. I mean c'mon, really????? She can't have a boyfriend come over and figure it out themselves? She played the damsel in distress, which made me feel it was all on purpose to cause a problem. I wouldn't put anything past her, given the stories I've heard.

And I do care if it's on purpose. If it is, then it's really devious behavior that is impacting ME. I do care and will always wonder if she's deliberately trying to mess with me/us. It's too many little things when added up together, all point to the possibility that it's deliberate.