The key it seems that it is hard to find it,
But it this dazn't deny it from existing!!!!
When we can't find something it dazn't mean that that thing dazn't exist! May be the key is in front of our eyes! Thrown down! But the filter in eyes in mind keep it invisible!!
The key is the self acceptance!
I don't have to be messy or tom cruise of famous leader vocalist rock band member to accept myself and to be merciful with myself!
I don't have to compare myself with everyone!
I only have to compare myself with me in passed time! That's how the improvement could be achieved!
Self-acceptance means that you understand who you truly are and where your strengths and weaknesses lie. You know what you want. This will allow you to be comfortable with your place in the world and be honest with yourself. If you can build your self confidence, you will live a life free of self criticism.