thanks for your support, i greatly appreciate it. he showed up to my lunch time today even though i asked him not to. and not only did he show up but he bought me a new wedding band!! i repeated again what i told him when we first spoke. i told him that he really needs to back off. i mean i asked him for a divorce, why go out and buy me a wedding band for PETES SAKE. i am trying to be as supportive as i can be but he is making it very hard for me. i feel that he should consider my feelings as well. i understand that he is hurt but geeze what else can i do. i told him that it is unfair to him if i stay in a relationship that i am not happy in. i mean its unfair to both of us right?