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Originally Posted by precaryous
*You* can create the line ..the boundary..
it’s his responsibility but you can protect yourself. If he starts revealing explicit details to you ...it’s perfectly fine for you to tell him that’s uncomfortable or out of line...or even fire him. He doesn’t just get to say, suggest or do ‘whatever’ and cover it by saying it’s to ‘help’ you.
He is correct that there is nothing off limits for you to share...but it’s not the other way around.
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Problem is, I’m scared that I won’t be strong enough to set that boundary if he doesn’t do it, even if it’s past my comfort point. I’ve been attracted to him for so long that I feel like my judgment is clouded now.