Hi Hugh, considering what you shared, I would be concerned too. It seems like this girl lacks boundaries. And when a person lacks boundaries they may not have the ability to respect your boundaries. That's probably what concerns you the most with this challenge.

That being said, people do have life challenges and learn from them too. No one can change their past, most of us learn and grow as we navigate through our lives. It's possible this girl has learned and grown as a person, she can't change her past, but it's possible she has gotten help and is a better and wiser individual.