Hi AO,
I used to find it very difficult to accept a compliment as well. But somewhere along the line I realized that when someone gives me a compliment it's like they're trying to give me something nice, a gift. And, so, rather than refuse the gift, I decided I should accept it because it's not really about whether I think the compliment is true or not, but more about the kind gesture of the other person. But it's always good to believe in the compliment rather than fight it. Take it into the heart and reflect on it - believe in it. The person is trying to tell you something.
I hope I'm making sense here.
Thank you.
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