I understand where some member's thoughts are going with this. Yes, sometimes this behavior does stem from abuse. I don't see him saying a cousin molested her. What IF he is sharing exactly how this GF is explaining it. What IF she told him what he shared "I let a family friend touch me and I liked it".
Not all promiscuous girls were molested, some just like the attention and power they get from it. I ran into this when I was younger, met girls that were just too into things and they just really liked the attention. I had a room mate like that, it got so I needed to distance from her due to guys thinking I was like that when I wasnt.
It's not black and white X doesn't always happen because of the Y factor.
Some girls have addictive behaviors and they even use sex to avoid anxiety and even lonliness. Sometimes, it's due not to abuse but lack of love and attention when they were younger from their parents. They find that lots of sex means lots of attention. Someone wants them, someone is paying attention to them and they really like it. And sometimes they WANT different partners to FEEL desirable to have a rush of power from it.
It can be connected to bipolar and even borderline personality disorder. There can also be alcohol issues connected to this behavior as well. It can also be a sign of a female with NPD issues too.
Maybe she did LIKE being touched inappropriately because MAYBE she needed something from her parents and did not get it, and she just liked the attention.
Last edited by Open Eyes; Mar 21, 2020 at 12:53 AM.
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