@koru_kiwi I’m sorry you ended up in a situation with your ex-t that ended up hurting you, that sounds really painful [emoji17]
@precaryous I honestly don’t think I have it in me to set the boundary now, because I’m curious and want to know more. I know that sounds bad and I wish I wasn’t like this. There were other similar questions on that list that he hasn’t answered yet, but said he would answer honestly, and I really want to know his thoughts. At this point I’m just trusting him to not let it go too far.. which I hope I can count on.