cuz you like it here thats why....
you are accepted here unconditionally....
its a hobby, etc...
i used to frequent other sites like "rotten.com" and "suicide girls. com" ... and i even was in a phase where i just sat and played the games at yahoo.
this place is better than any of those because there is real human interaction, and for me, its just a prcursor to me actually going out and getting some real human contact... which i think the ultimate goal should be... at least it is for me.
i noticed you were "closet" cuz you are active, yet invisible.
well its safe out here, so come on out of that closet!

together we all make this place great.