Sara C sorry you endured others treating you poorly.

The people who told me don't cry, stop crying, it's not that bad, get over it, walking out of the room were friends and family. I supported these friends many times- never turned my back. Yet when I needed support I was told all the above- don't cry etc. Even family was the same too. I sort of knew family wouldn't be supportive but I decided to try and reach out. The comments made me feel abandoned. So I started relying on myself, tough front etc.