Hope I don’t get deleted this thread. I’m gonna try to take a normal conversation with other users without anyone feeling told off.

A few time ago it was brought up an interesting topic here about some people being difficult because they are so focused on a view of point, their view of point, that only look for validation and they refute or don’t hear any other possible view point or what other people have to say.

I want to talk about a different group here. And I’m doing it because when I barely feel affected by people since I keep distance because of my social anxiety, I feel insulted when they behave as they do with other people.

I’m referring to people with such a lack of empathy and also full of themselves that when someone have a problem, they are unable to put into this person shoes and don’t consider how the other person may feel with their responses. They don’t help, they pretend to say what they think is their truth, according to their principles. This help nothing. It’s like a scolding.
They feel proud of themselves because they are far from being politically correct but their truth is ahead of everything, it’s over if they are doing something or not to help the other person.
I myself was such Egotistic with a person here and I’m ashamed. I don’t hide.
We all make mistakes so maybe our truth is only that our truth in a moment, under different circumstances, with a range of values, only belonging to ourselves.

I don’t know if I’m being clear enough in what I want to brought up. One of my faults, is not being very direct because I’m afraid of messing things up when I’m totally direct. So, tell me if I make sense.