I haven't posted here in awhile but I'm really in need of some support so I thought I'd give it a try. For the past 18 months I had been living in a halfway house and I made a close friend there who has a similar history to mine. We became very close to her to the point where I thought of her as a second mother.

I had warned her a few months back that an apartment had called me and said they would have a vacancy soon. She didn't want me to leave, citing that I had recently been hospitalized and still needed the support of the halfway house. Nonetheless I thought about and decided to move anyway, which I did at the end of February.

When I first moved out we still talked but gradually it became less and less. On Monday she sent me a text basically saying that I could text or call anytime, but that its her choice if she will answer or not. I told her I respected that, but ever since she's been ignoring any texts or calls. I've tried to decrease the frequency of my attempts and let her come to me, but it's been hard.

I really miss her and am very worried about losing the friendship. She has a ton of attachment issues as do I, and I know she's cut people out of her life before. If anyone can give advice or support, is greatly appreciated.