Hey Jade, sorry to hear about your troubles.

Im having the same problem at the moment, I have a few new (ish) cuts at the top of my thight which really stand out, and Im due in the hospital for a check up on weds and I know I have to strip off for it!! Ive been dreading it, but thought about it as well and I have decided that if they ask what it is all about Im just simply not going to answer - its a personal issue and none of their business!

I kinda agree on that people self injuring in visible places is a cry for help, but I also think they do it subconsciously. I was the same until a friend pointed it out to me. Now, I do it in more discreet places

I dont blame people for doing it though, I think it comes naturally, we all probably think at some point that 'no one understands' and that we all need help when we are suffering inside - even if you dont realise it

as for the scars - Lots of sun!! I know that means uncovering, but showing them can also help you understand not to be ashamed at times and helps improve confidence. I took a step and did this when I moved abroad last year and the sun helped them heal so much - they became barely visible

Good luck with everything babyg xxx