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Originally Posted by divine1966
It’s possible she didn’t mean it or could be she didn’t know what else to say. Like maybe she wasn’t able to say what she really thought about the situation (like maybe she thought saying anything else would upset you and she said that not knowing what to say). If she is a good friend, she maybe didn’t mean harm.
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Yeah, you're right in saying she didn't mean any harm. I know she doesn't in general. I've presented hurt feelings before to her and she's always apologized saying she was totally unaware. She may not have known what to say. That's very possible. I know she doesn't intend to hurt - in fact, she's quite the opposite. She's very sensitive herself and can feel hurt by others' statements. So I know she's sensitive overall to people's feelings. She just blurts out things sometimes and doesn't realize how it may come across. Ha, I guess anyone can be guilty of that, including myself!