No, she wasn't borderline. I think she was a covert narcissist who married two overt narcissists. At the same time she would be...well she was a nurse so a professional caregiver. Okay yes I would say narcissist because she had an abundance of charisma and was a bigger than life sort. My parents were narcissistic and preferred their extrovert children. I always was and still am an introvert...and finally I no longer feel I am being judged for it. The brother I get along with is also an introvert. But I had a lifetime of attracting narcissists. Sadly they turned me on. I was addicted.Then. Not now.

I took an online course that kind of detoxed me of narcissistic abuse and ever since doing that course no narcissist has come into my life...so I guess it worked.