well the first time i met my T was 2 weeks ago so i kindof remember......haha..........she had on harley boots .............it felt like we were going through a divorce.....she was going thorugh 'who gets what when how' all these details and more details................i told her point blank "your sure not fluffy' and she laughed and said 'no im not'...................sooooooOOOoo....not sure what to think..,,jury is still deciding.............................