I've been with my boyfriend 8.5 years and through multiple discards and hoovers. I'm exhausted but the worse part is finding out the extent of his cheating just recently.

He always twisted time frames when we split and I found out about this person or that person, but came back because he insisted it was while we were broken up.

This time he can't twist anything. He is caught. No excuses even though he is spewing nonsense. We aren't together because I'm not having it anymore.

My question is why? Just why? Why?