It took me quite a few months to actually 100 percent decide that I wanted to stay with my T-- I couldn't decide if we connected or not. I even considered dumping him a couple of times.

Over two and a half years later, we have connected. He is quite amazing and I am very fortunate of our relationship.

I'm not sure that I'm understanding what you meant about your therapist saying "what a great opportunity you have." As far as anger, anger is frequently what lies underneath our emotions such as anxiety and depression-- so she may see that in you, and want to get at it.

Only you can tell if this relationship is right for you-- if you are unsure, I would say give a it a little bit more time-- it normally takes more than just two visits to decide unless it is blatantly obvious.