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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
I think you have expressed a deep need to understand how different interactions trigger you and how to manage it better when you see certain things and get triggered. This site exposes people to be able to view all kinds of interactions in different forums. It can take time to get used to that and be able to see comments and reactions that you may not agree with and would address differently. It can be a challenge, yet also be educational too. And the truth is, not everyone "nails" it when addressing a challenged individual. There are also different ways to address a challenged individual. What has to be considered it their cultural influences too.
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((((Open Eyes)))
The thing is that I’m a pretty reasonable person, my problem is that many times, I still react without taking the time to think and consider the differences you have pointed out. Now, I know why. I know why I react and act more unconsciously that is, when the theory about the triangle’s roles makes sense.
Yes, I wouldn’t make a distinction between online interactions and irl interactions. At least, not in my personal case. What triggers me here, is the same I saw triggered in my off-line life. And I think this is a good site to learn.