Absolutely not. "Worried" means they have either lost perspective or don't feel competent to treat whatever I bring in. I need my psychiatrist and therapist to be good crisis mangers, not "worriers". Fortunately, they are both excellent crisis managers and I feel safe that they will never "worry" but rather deal with the issue at hand appropriately. "Worry" isn't about you, it's about them. I'll take empathy and insight from them, gladly, however. It's far healthier.
Last edited by sophiebunny; Mar 27, 2020 at 11:55 PM.
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