I’ve seen some people who defend their right to suffer in my life, but it is absolutely not something I would attribute to a doctor who takes a negative patient outcome as a personal failure. In fact I think that is a good characteristic in a doctor.

Like you I think I see what he was trying to do, but I think in your current circumstances it’s unempathic and missed the mark of what you need completely. I think he should ease up a bit on you during this crisis.