I am in a relationship with a woman with borderline personality disorder and just looking for support. It's at times the most rewarding relationship I have been in but also, by far, the most challenging. I know her past so I understand why she is the way she is but it's incredibly tough sometimes.

She struggles to let me in and then when she does, and I start to think we are moving forward, she takes this giant step back and sometimes in very hard to cope with ways. Looking for others who are in the same position for support.

Any advice or resources or support would be welcomed.