The police went to his door with the order and told him to leave me alone or get thrown in jail. I didn’t hear from him again, and heard from a mutual friend that he had left town.

Twenty years later (thanks facebook ) he told me that I was right to have involved police.

He didn’t turn out okay. This is too hard a story to tell here. The ‘reunion’ didn’t end well, either and I had to call police again!