He was more MI than I realized. I fell for it not once, but twice...so that’s on me. I did not think he would hurt me, and I’m still not sure. He exhibited all the behaviors yours did, yet I see it as a love obsession and not someone who would physically hurt me...but I may be wrong.

He made several red flag comments, but I chose not to notice them. The relationship (20 years later) did not ever materialize. We never met in person, had only spoken, and he lived in another state. When I said it wouldn’t work, he went ballistic, like he did the first time twenty years earlier. He just wouldn’t let up with the stalking and name calling harassment. It was him being mad over the rejection.

I don’t know if yours will become physically dangerous, but you shouldn’t set yourself up to find out.

Like what yours said about you having his babies, mine said something similar that was throughly disturbing. These guys have the same kind of thinking and behavior. Be careful.