My husband passed away in December...

Anyway this is what's happening... I'm in quarantine with my uncle and my "cousin by marriage" who is his roommate.

See, every relationship I get involved with, I develop paranoia that they are out to scam me, take advantage of me, etc...

My uncle I've mistrusted for years but I love him enough being my uncle that right now we're cool.

My cousin my marriage however is making the moves on me.... A little, and I tease him back... But I'm starting to have paranoia too toward him...

And even my former husband I kept imagining senerios in my head he was doing this or that, etc... That turned out not to be true...

How can I learn to trust better?