Does this guy know you have a husband and he’s carrying on like this to make you his wife? How did he get so far gone in his own delusional fantasy? This sounds even more dangerous now. Your husband could be in danger.
As for me, it’s a long, confusing story. Basically, we have an intimacy issue in our marriage. It’s not just my problem. I have some issues but they combine with the issues of a few others to make toxic drama. I have anxiety and depression (stemming from the anxiety). Different doctors have given me different diagnoses or none at all.
Overall, I’m okay. Very fortunate tbh.