For now T is driving to his office for sessions and intentionally shows me the office so I know everything is the same. T has shown me pictures of the inside of his house before in session so that too away some of the weirdness of seeing inside his house. I know they have plenty of room and only two people so finding someplace private wouldn’t be an issue. But... if he stops going into the office and starts doing it from home I may request where he does it from... I am not sure if he would humor me or not...
on the flip side in my house the only quiet space is my room and it does freak me out to have T in my room. I lock the cats out of my room so they won’t distract me but then H let’s them outside. They then hop up on my window yowling to get in... poor T thinks I’m batty!