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Originally Posted by Purple Heart
Yes I realise I have to slow down and re-evaluate. I guess it can be difficult when you can't go to work and home with partner 24/7. When fighting I get triggered, reminds me of my domineering mother which makes me want to run. And anyone who has C-PTSD knows, it is exhausting and overwhelming at times dealing with multiple childhood traumas by different abusers. I will speak to my T next week. Thank you
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Yes, do keep in mind that this is a very stressful time in our lives, for everyone. Being around one another 24/7 is HARD...... it can cause extra strain on a relationship that otherwise is not present.
Since you get triggered by the fights, I must ask: is your girlfriend domineering or abusive in any way?