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Old Apr 02, 2020, 05:53 AM
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Originally Posted by SheHulk07 View Post
Kind of in a similar situation as WFS I think with H staying at his mom's since the 16th. Our agreement was to switch off with the kids of who would stay in the house doing a half of a week each. But with the shelter in place, I don't think I have anywhere I could go for half the week for the next month or so while this lasts. I'm sheltering in place as much as possible, only sticking to the essential things. But I think it's unsafe and stupid to be staying over at my family's multiple times a month right now because of what H did. I think he should be the one to stay at his mom's during this whole thing, yet I really don't need him or his mother saying I'm keeping the kids away from him during this especially with CPS still involved

Hm, that is really complicated...Could you check with the CPS caseworker to see what they recommend? I suspect there are lots of other families with similar situations in their caseload, so maybe they've figured out how to handle it? I agree that you shouldn't have to be leaving the house when he was the one whose actions led to the separation...Not sure if your state has a shelter in place order, but I suspect that could affect things (legally) as well.
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