Nothing incenses me more than a passive aggressive person. And they can in part and sometimes get away with it because you can never truly call them out on the behavior because it's more subtle, it's not direct and it's very sneaky.
It's the worst kind of person in my personal opinion. When it is done to harm another, it is purely out of malice and intent to harm. That kind of person is a low life person in my opinion.
I see this all too often in people, and what makes me most angry is that they never own up to it. I want to tell them, just be direct, for crying out loud. And if you're angry, then own up to it and say so. Don't take it out on others in indirect ways.
The healthy way to deal with anger is to confront it, own it and to address it with the person you're angry with. Passive aggressiveness is not a healthy way to deal with people in relationships. It's just not.
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Last edited by Have Hope; Apr 02, 2020 at 11:52 AM.
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