My husband and I are in some serious need of marriage therapy. However, he REFUSES. There are many reasons why, but I don't feel like doing into them now. The marriage therapy would not be with my T-- my T does don't believe in bringing my husband into our sessions because it really wouldn't be objective at that point.

I don't know what to do. I am trying to work on our marriage in my therapy, but I seem to be missing a very important component-- my %#@&#! husband!! So since I can't have him in therapy with me (and I wouldn't want that), I would like to go to marriage therapy.

I have asked him many times, but he will not go.