I am always suspicious of people who talk about themselves all the time. Self absorbed so to speak.
Now if it’s a therapy session that they pay for then it’s fine, but unless they pay me who has the time.
I once briefly dated a guy years ago, I couldn’t keep going out with him as he was a mess and I ended it, so when we dated I could put my phone down and he’d still be talking!
Most of his one sided conversations were about his boss, his “evil” mother and his “terrible” sister. Of course he was a victim and everyone was to blame.
So his sister (lovely woman btw) invited us and the bunch of family to a restaurant and in the middle of the dinner she says to him loudly “not everything is about you” because he’d not shut up going on on on about himself and how great he was snd completely monopolized the entire dinner party .
I about fell of the chair when she said that. No one was even surprised. The whole family was fed up with him, they are nice people. I still run into them sometimes in the area.
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