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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
Stop caring when “professionals” irl are mean and callous? Stop being hurt by their abuse? I wish I could  Stop being “too sensitive”? I do not know of anyone who is not hurt by that especially if multiple “providers” are so flawed and bullying.
This is my truth. It is MY experience. And I am not “paranoid”. I am deeply disappointed at the shoddy and bullying “service” I have repeatedly received irl when I was in legit distress and even “crisis”... having spoken to others it would seem their training is “different” here - basically it is blame the patient if they are not cured on their schedule. And that is just a tiny part of it..... so aside from moving continents which is obviously not an option... this issue is not “just in my head” or due to “wrong perceptions”.
I could tell them this, but they do not listen. I would prefer to be treated like a human/bear and not a malfunctioning machine..
I appreciate freedom of expression and not being shut down. This is part of MY healing. It’s not a one size fits all like some irl seem to think. |
I don't think anyone wishes for you to deny your truth. I don't. It does make me sad it continues to hurt you, but that's for me to deal with, not you. I just don't like knowing a friend is in pain and I'm working on acceptance of what I do not like.
You shouldn't have to conform to a system, it should stretch to allow for you. A system not working for you does not mean you are broken or wrong.
When I say do not give them power they do not deserve it in no way means I see you as too sensitive. I think your sensitivity is a power in itself. I simply mean you can recognize the abuse, be honest with yourself about how it made you feel and then step out of it and change the pattern. Our power is not in denying our truth. It is in owning it and transforming the future.
I can't tell if you were aiming any of that my way, but I felt like clarifying what I said before was perhaps warranted.