im one of those "if you love it, let it go" kinda people. i feel like, why would i fight for someone that I love. If they loved me, they would come to me. If they dont come back to me, then why would I want to be in a relationship with someone who doesnt feel the same way about me?

Now, if youre fighting because you did something to chase them away, and you want to let them know youre sorry and you want them back thats different. But if its something like, theyre with someone else and it was their decision. I would just let it go.

Plus I dont really like the idea of fighting for someone because, to me, it seems like you feel like their a posession of yours. And you have to fight for them. They have their own will and if they dont choose to come back to you, then they must not really want to be with you. Once again, just my opinion.