You say he loves you and treats you well, but you also say he lies to you and cheats on you and he takes you for granted and flirts with other women in front of you and sleeps at other womens houses and says he doesn't give a f*** about your feelings or concerns and asks you for money and doesn't pay you back and...girl I got to wonder, where is your head??? From where I'm sitting, none of this man's actions are loving ones....for sure he doesn't love or treat you the way you deserve to be loved and treated. Would you do ANY of these things to someone you love? Would you advise any of your girlfriends to stay with a man who treated them this way? I just bet you wouldn't....you know already that he is just being plain mean and cruel and unkind.
How long do you really think it is going to be until you make a phone call to his cell phone and another woman answers it.....how long do you think it's going to be until some woman tells you that she loves him now and that he loves her not you?
The man is not your friend darlin'. Somewhere out there is a man who will want to spend every waking moment by your side....he will cherish you and make you laugh and show you beautiful things he has found while he was out working to pay the bills...beautiful things that made him think of you and how much he loves you.
Go find this man who will love you like this coz this is the kind of love and carin' you have to give in that big beautiful heart of yours....you deserve nothing less than to be treated the same way as you treat and love others.