Ignoring this whole "situation," I would like to be more social, but I've been hurt too many times to want to be social again. It's not something I want to put myself through again.

To make a long story short, people have thought it was funny to invite me to things and then purposely not show up. They have also said I'm ugly and antisocial, to my face. Some have even said (behind my back) that I'm "too weird" to hang out with.

Not sure if that's what kind of answer you're looking for, but that's how I interpreted this question.