Yes sometimes others advice does not really help and oftentimes they don’t mean it, but maybe they just don’t understand. For example,when going through a rough time and finding out I had a learning disorder and mild brain difference, ok mild brain damage, a neurologist doc said “don’t be anxious.” Oh it so simple just tell me “don’t be anxious” when have learning disorder, mild brain damage, was being berated by supervisor, and very anxious at work (work was difficult enough prior to this due to social anxiety and anxiety). It’s magic tell me “don’t be anxious” and the anxiety melts away. Yeah and monkeys will learn to fly soon.