if you think that in the existance of mankind they used manipulation to their there needs and moved all over the place all the time. That they can all the sudden very very very quickly be forced into isolation with no problem. I think that says alot of todays society. That statement makes no sense. How can you claim you don't have instincts that need rebuilding. How can you honestly know your not manipulating when youve done it your whole life and everyone else has too. The mere fact you make a argument to make yourself look good says it. That in itself is manipulative. The problem is when you do this people see the real you underneath eventually and it begins to cause tension. Then the tension never stops building up. Eventually people start breaking and dysfunction comes out and because nobody ever truly dealt with it on their own you create a toxic relationship now, then eventually that will become abusive. Then boom. **** its the fan. Its because this world is about controlling problems, not actually figuring them out in a good way.