Dear Adelaydachic.

I'm so sorry that you are in this situation which you described. Relationships are probably one of the most difficult things for human beings to maintain. Not being very successful at it myself, I am the last person on earth to offer you advice or insight. I do want to say, however, that I hope everything eventually works out of for you. Hopefully others here with more insight and wisdom will be able to have better words for you than my poor words!

Sincerely yours, -- Yao Wen