It took me close to two years, but I think one session I blurted something out that was directly related to my sex life and he knew how to take it from there in such a way that didn’t make me feel uncomfortable. It felt more like an intellectual discussion about something quite abstract, like it got separated from me as a person in a way that didn’t make me feel too exposed. I don’t really know how to explain it very well. The important thing is brining it up from a place that is slightly detached form you. A good therapist will make it safe for you to talk about it if you choose to bring it up.