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Old Apr 09, 2020, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
I been on a leave of absence bc of coronavirus pandemic. I told him I'll be back when it all blows over and he was like ok. But just bc I could go back, would it do me any good to actually? He changed. He may have been mad a number of times before, but he was NEVER rude until that moment before his vacation. He's only gonna get worse just like that supervisor at Arby's. And just like that supervisor at Arby's, he used to like me. That's what I mean when I say people change.

I plan on going back for a little while and then transfer to another location. The problem is, I'll have to go through him in order to transfer. How do I tell him?
Wait and see. Who knows when we will be returning and how things will be. When you ask for a transfer, you aren’t obligated to disclose the reason.

But sadly if you don’t stop these things, you’ll have another issue at your new work place. Pretty much it won’t stop until you improve. Keep working with your case manager and your therapist. Tell them what’s happening in a workplace and ask to help improve (role play exercises etc).

Maybe not now (unless you do phone therapy) but definitely after it
Thanks for this!
lizardlady