I never really thought that passive aggressive behavior was , on occasion, probably the only way to deal with certain people and situations.
All I can say for myself is that I’ve been dealing with this type of behavior from my SO for over 50 years !!! And I’m a type of person that likes to deal with issues directly and to the point ! She has caused me a tremendous amount of pain over the years. Whatever pain she may be going through is unknown because, being passive aggressive allows her to deflect and not talk about things directly and with honesty. The only reason we’re still together is a common addiction to each other, and maybe fate. But it’s been one hell of a roller coaster ride of a life.
Wish I had what it took to leave her for good. But I’m weak.