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Old Apr 09, 2020, 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Miss Laura View Post
Is it a coincidence or what the day this girl breaks ties with me us the day a mutual older women who use to be my boss contacts me by phone asking if things are ok. I'm raging. Nice of her to do do but I have a feeling she did it cause the original girl contacted her she does this all the time then hedges me slyly and asked if the said woman has been in touch.

Does this sound crazy? Do I sound crazy? Am i paranoid?
No, that doesn't sound crazy or paranoid.

I think you should try not to put too much thought and energy into this situation because you are getting more and more upset over it and it's making you hurt even more. I know what the girl did was harsh, but right now, I think you need to focus on you and your wellbeing, since you have said before that you're not doing so well. So, I recommend that you forget about the girl for now. Maybe in the future you can reconnect/reconcile, but clearly her actions are not good for your mental wellbeing right now.

I know it's not your fault that the mutual older woman called you. I'm sure that added some pain. However, try to focus your thoughts and energy into getting better. Do something positive for yourself.
Thanks for this!
Miss Laura